Many men have a tendency to rush foreplay as they want to start intercourse as soon as possible.I have a great job as a sexologist and I talk to many ladies about sex. In these conversations , one common theme is that most do not receive a lot of quality foreplay.So I have put together a simple guide to some of my best foreplay tips and positions.
The first foreplay tip is very easy. Whatever you are doing in foreplay, just slow it down. How about trying the following. The next time you make love, in any foreplay position, touch your lover from the legs, up the body to the head.The key is to be very slow and light at first. One can touch so softly that you are only touching fine hairs. This massage stroke can feel very sensual.Generally, in foreplay it is good to repeat anything that is working.
Generally, I do not touch the genital area or the breasts at the start of foreplay. Leave these hot zones to later on when your lover is more turned on.
There is a way to touch that can increase the pleasure.. Take your attention totally into the sensations in your hands and really feel your lovers pleasure through the touch. Your lover will feel more.
Be amazed at the result of trying this exercise with your partner. When touching for a minute, have your mind on sport. . Now find out from your lover how much pleasure was in each type of touch.. A massage table can be used for this exercise to make this foreplay position easy.
In my experience, ladies are very in tune with how a man touches them. They like a man to be out of his head and totally present in the touch. When they feel a man is very present, they feel more safe to open and let go.
The next great foreplay tip is simple, take 30 minutes or longer in foreplay.. Most women will become more sensual and sexy as foreplay continues.
If you are totally present in your touch, then time expands and the pleasure increases. Why stop?.
My next great tip on foreplay is to have no goal in lovemaking. It took me ages to become less focused on the goal of orgasm and be in the here and now. Foreplay can take on a magic quality of energy, connection and pleasure.
The next step is foreplay is to learn the art of touching the vulva and g spot.Join my free newsletter for more explicit massage strokes on the genital area.
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Maurice Tate is a qualified sexologist trained at the Advanced Institute of Sexology.
Foreplay Tips, Advice and Positions
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Sunday, February 8, 2009
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